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Sep 2024
55 m

Awkwardness with Alexandra Plakias

ELLIE ANDERSON, PH.D. AND DAVID PEñA-GUZMáN, PH.D.
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Clogged toilets, odious jokes, difficult condolences… awkward moments are everywhere you look. In episode 113 of Overthink, Ellie and David invite philosopher Alexandra Plakias to talk through her research on awkwardness. They discuss everything from hasty clean-ups to snap decisions, from oversharing online to uncomfortable silences, as they explore the way ... Show More
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