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Feb 2017
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Ep 81. It's Not About You

Jody Moore
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Your brain thinks that the things that happen in your life should be filtered through the lense, "How does this affect me?" This self interested position is not only unnecessary, it keeps us stuck, inhibits our relationships, limits our parenting and causes many other problems. But when we remember to tell ourselves, "It's not about you," we get to live the higher, more fulfilled life we are meant for.

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