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Aug 2020
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ep.22 "How can I stop judging myself for...

Kati Morton, LMFT
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Audience Questions for ep22 of Ask Kati Anything! How is a therapist generally trained to respond when they notice their client getting teary in session?  Hi Kati! I really struggle with feeling responsible for other people's emotions, including my therapist. I constantly analyze people to ensure... Hi Kati, I have this problem that nobody seems to unders ... Show More
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