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Mar 2020
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929 Esther Perel: The Quality of Your Re...

Lewis Howes
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“You learn to love yourself in the context of relationships with others.” QUESTIONS Can we choose to be in suffering or not? (0:30) Can you learn to suffer less over time? (4:24) When was the last time you suffered the deepest? (5:32) Why are relationships seemingly the most hard for people when they are what we need most? (8:32) How many relationsh ... Show More
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