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Jun 2020
52m 37s

Playing Favorites

Hidden Brain, Shankar Vedantam
About this episode
If we do a favor for someone we know, we think we've done a good deed. What we don't tend to ask is: Who have we harmed by treating this person withmore kindness than we show toward others? This week, in the second of our two-part series on moral decision-making, we consider how actions that come from a place of love can lead to a more unjust world. 
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