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Jan 2017
47m 43s

80: Online Dating And Attracting The Rig...

Thrive Therapy - Colter Bloxom, Lauren Mokarry, and Cayla Bozovich
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In today’s episode we discuss relationship advice topics that include:  How to set up an online dating profile that will attract the right kind of partner. Why it's important to just 'observe' online profiles of potential matches and not 'create a story' of who that person is. Why you cannot draw to you what you don't already have within. Dating right a ... Show More
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