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Jan 2024
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Online Dating & Desirability

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Healthy//Toxic

Healthy versus Toxic is a podcast where licensed mental health professionals explore what makes a relationship healthy or unhealthy. Our hosts aim to provide a scientifically informed perspective on what factors go into making healthy relationships, how to build secure attachment, and how to be a better parent, child, partner, or friend. 


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Fullwood, C., & Attrill-Smith, A. (2018). Up-Dating: Ratings of Perceived Dating Success Are Better Online than Offline. CyberPsychology, Behavior & Social Networking, 21(1), 11–15.


Peters, S., & Salzsieder, H. (2018). What Makes You Swipe Right?: 

Gender Similarity in Interpersonal Attraction in a Simulated Online Dating Context. Psi Chi Journal of Psychological Research, 23(4), 320–329.


Whyte, S., & Torgler, B. (2017). Preference Versus Choice in Online Dating. CyberPsychology, Behavior & Social Networking, 20(3), 150–156


SHARABI, L. L., & CAUGHLIN, J. P. (2017). What predicts first date success? A longitudinal study of modality switching in online dating. Personal Relationships, 24(2), 370–391.


Whitty, M. T. (2018). Do You Love Me? Psychological Characteristics of Romance Scam Victims. CyberPsychology, Behavior & Social Networking, 21(2), 105–109.


SLATER, D. (2013). A Million First Dates How Online Dating Is Threatening Monogamy. Atlantic, 311(1), 40.


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