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Aug 2019
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210: I Love You, But I Hate Your Politic...

Thrive Therapy - Colter Bloxom, Lauren Mokarry, and Cayla Bozovich
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It can feel a bit overwhelming to discuss politics with a significant other, friends or family in today's politically charged world. Unfortunately, with the 2020 presidential election looming, the political divide in media and culture will likely be more apparent than ever. Listen to today's show to learn how to constructively talk politics and love someone ... Show More
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