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Ep. 365 - Did I make the wrong choice by...

Breakup Coach Dorothy
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Did I make the wrong choice ending my relationship? If you're the one who left but now you're questioning everything, wondering if you gave up too soon, should have tried harder, or walked away from something that could have been fixed, this is the episode I want you to hear. Because there are actually two very different things that can have you thinking, "I made a mistake," and confusing them can keep you stuck in regret for months or even years. I'm walking you through how I would honestly evaluate the decision, what to do if you really did get something wrong, and how to tell when what feels like regret might actually be grief over the life you thought you were going to have. And either way, there is something you can do next.

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