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Sep 23
22m 19s

Why Does Putting On Shoes Take 45 Minute...

KIRK MARTIN
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If getting your kids out the door, into bed, or to school feels like preparing for combat, this episode is your rescue mission. Whether your child is naturally a dawdler, struggles with focus, or uses resistance to cope with anxiety, shouting "Hurry up!" never works. Listen to learn 10 creative, battle-tested strategies to get kids of all ages moving more qu ... Show More
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