I'm kicking off Season 6 by turning Instagram comments and real marriage questions into deeper conversations about what actually builds a strong relationship. I'm sharing what Ben and I have learned about disagreement, repair, fun, trust, and why an extraordinary marriage doesn’t require perfection. • the Season 6 format shift from reels to long-form depth ... Show More
Aug 18
The Three Skills That Predict Marriage Success and Intimacy
This week I share the fastest way I can tell whether a couple will make progress, and it has little to do with how messy the problems look. I break down the E.V.A framework, three ingredients that turn stuck fights into real intimacy: empathy, vulnerability, and accountability. • ... Show More
17m 55s
May 19
Invisible Labor Is Real And It's Exhausting with Zach Watson
Today, I talk with Zach Watson about how “helping” at home can still leave one partner carrying the mental load, and how naming invisible labor changes the way couples work together. We break down emotional labor, cognitive labor, and the Fair Play framework so we can close more ... Show More
37m 39s
Apr 2020
RELATIONSHIP ADVICE w/ OUR HUSBANDS!!
Chelsey & Jaci their husbands, Nick & Leif on the podcast this week to give some relationship advice! They read submissions from listeners asking for advice about boys who don’t text back, keeping long distance relationships spicy, & dealing with in-laws! Get ready for some great ... Show More
1h 4m
Nov 2025
episode 5: marriage beyond your pinterest board + honest q&a
hi everyone welcome back or welcome to the as you are podcast! this episode I talk about a few things I’ve learned in the last 2 years of being married and the truths behind marriage and things to prepare for beforehand, such as communication, love languages, unlearning, healing ... Show More
39m 54s
Feb 2023
7 Tips For Building A Healthy Relationship (Ft. My Husband, Max!)
Max is Back! This week's episode Victoria sits down with husband/recurring pod guest, Max, and they're dishing on what it ACTUALLY takes to build a healthy relationship. From setting boundaries, to saying what you want, but also how to keep things fun, they're breaking down how t ... Show More
54m 5s
<p>Jana and Mike talk to Nate and Kaley Klemp, authors of “The 80/80 Marriage”, about how to keep your relationship balanced. </p><p><br></p><p>How do you define roles in a marriage? Find out how to live with less conflict and more productivity.</p><p><br></p><p>And find out how ... Show More
