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Aug 10
28m 16s

How Narcissists Use Love Bombing to Buil...

Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.
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He checked the grocery receipt. And the look on his face said everything: he expected to catch you at something. You weren't a partner. You were a suspected thief. But that moment — that first time money became a surveillance tool — didn't come out of nowhere. It didn't start with the receipts, or the interrogations, or the separate account he opened witho ... Show More
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