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Jun 29
26m 13s

4 Reasons Your Child Doesn’t Listen

Nurtured First
About this episode

Jess tackles one of the most common parenting questions: 'Why won't my child listen?'  She breaks down the four main reasons kids struggle to follow directions and provides practical strategies and actionable advice on connecting before directing and holding firm boundaries. Tune in to discover how to reframe your child's behaviour and create a more cooperative, peaceful dynamic in your home.


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Credits:

Editing by The Pod Cabin 

Artwork by Wallflower Studio 

Production by Nurtured First 



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