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An Easier Way to Live

MICHAEL NEILL
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What if the thing that's making your life harder than it needs to be isn't your circumstances, your workload, or your relationships, but the quiet, almost invisible background project of trying to be somebody?

In today's episode, Michael explores what happens when you stop trying to be a better version of yourself and start simply being yourself — and how much bandwidth that frees up.

In this episode:

  • How the project of "becoming a better version of yourself" runs silently in the background - and what it costs you

  • What Syd Banks meant by "drop your ego" (and why it's nothing like what you might think)

  • Why you may never have actually met yourself - and how it can happen as soon as today

  • Eddie Murphy on why the secret of his long, relatively scandal-free career comes down to one thing

  • What happens to your thinking, creativity, and energy when you stop trying to improve your self-image

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