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Jun 25
52m 51s

Outgrowing Yourself on Purpose

Payton Sartain
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#252. I’m mourning the loss of me… but, like, in a good way? In this episode, we are ending over a year of internal personal chaos with realizations about growth, releasing old versions of self, and stepping into a new phase of life. This episode is very much giving *classic* NTS, and for that, we are thankful.                                                 ... Show More
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