JP Nerbun's 10-year-old daughter said something on the walk to the bus that stopped him cold: "She's climbing the mountain of achievement without any purpose." That one line is the heart of this entire conversation.
This special episode drops on the launch day of JP's new book The Culture Captain — a field guide for athletes learning to lead from the inside out. JP sits down with longtime friend John O'Sullivan, founder of the Changing the Game Project and co-author of Captain: The Athlete's Guide to Being an Exceptional Team Leader (with Jerry Lynch). Two books. Same subject. Written simultaneously, on opposite sides of the Atlantic. They go deep on self-awareness as the foundation of leadership, why modeling behaviors beats locker room speeches, how to have a difficult conversation before you feel ready, and what it means to lead from the bench when things aren't going your way.
Whether you coach athletes, lead a team, or are still figuring out who you are as a leader — this one is for you.
3 Quotes | 2 Questions | 1 Resource
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"She's climbing the mountain of achievement without any purpose."
— JP Nerbun's daughter, age 10
"Success is the goal, but it's not the purpose. Fulfillment should be the purpose. This is what coaches need to provide."
— John O'Sullivan
"You pick up the cones and balls, you serve others. You do that and people go, man, if that's the captain doing it, I better do it too."
— John O'Sullivan
Q1: Think of an athlete who is putting in the work but seems to have lost their joy. What would it look like to help them reconnect with purpose rather than achievement?
Q2: What is it currently costing your team — in trust, momentum, or culture — to avoid a hard conversation that needs to happen?
The Culture Captain by JP Nerbun
A field guide for athletes learning to lead with purpose, values, and selflessness — told through a fable and backed by real stories from Tim Duncan, Tom Brady, Abby Wambach, and more.
Get The Culture Captain at culturecaptain.net
Captain: The Athlete's Guide to Being an Exceptional Team Leader by John O'Sullivan & Jerry Lynch
Qualities, responsibilities, and challenges for every team captain — grounded in research and real stories from high school to the pros.
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