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Apr 16
35m 48s

47 Flirting Tips So You’ll Never Run Out...

Connell Barrett
About this episode
If you struggle with what to say and how to flirt, help has arrived. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett gives you 47 simple, actionable ways to spark attraction with women, without cheesy gimmicks. Learn how to be playful, authentic, and confident, so you’ll never run out of things to say—on dates, over text, or when approaching women.


WANT TO BECOME AMAZING AT FLIRTING? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT HIS 1-1 COACHING: DatingTransformation.com


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