This week we're answering a question from a listener in another Q&A episode. We're going to be diving into feeling like you're never a priority for your partner, and what to do when you're kept a secret from friends and family.If you'd like a question of yours answered on a future Q&A episode, visit multiamory.com/questions.Join our amazing community of list ... Show More
Apr 7
574 - How to Make Calendaring Not Suck
Today we're covering a topic that causes a lot of friction in a lot of relationships: scheduling. Sometimes, coordinating time with people we love - whether it's family, partners, or friends - feels impossible. And it turns out, it actually is impossible to do perfectly. We're go ... Show More
1h 10m
Mar 24
572 - Building Commitment Off the Relationship Escalator
Today we're talking about milestones in relationships, and how to build commitment when you're actively trying not to stay on the relationship escalator. We'll be discussing traditional milestones, why they're valued, how relationship milestones with one partner can affect other ... Show More
1 h
Feb 2025
Everything is Changing & We’re a Little Scared… Sharing Stories & Updates We’ve Haven’t Shared yet
In today’s episode Kaleb and I open up about past stories, Kaleb’s dream to go to law school, potentially moving, and MORE! I hope you guys enjoy this episode and the NEW podcast rebrand! We have some exciting guests coming up this season! ORDER JEANINE’S BOOK HAPPY & HEALTHY or ... Show More
1 h
Jul 2025
From The Heart: A Personal Update About How We're Growing, Together | E464
I have something personal to share.
This podcast — this weekly connection with you — is one of my favorite parts of my work. It's not even fair to call it work. If I won the lottery and never had to work for money again, I'd still be here with you, every week. (Recording from my ... Show More
8m 51s
Jul 2025
3 Steps to More Confidence
You don’t have to fully love yourself to be in a relationship—but if you don’t value yourself at all, it will show up in how you love and who you choose. In this episode, Jillian explores how self-worth shapes our romantic lives, why shame keeps us stuck, and what it actually tak ... Show More
36m 6s
Feb 2025
How To Master Self-Awareness & Growth in Relationships with Yung Pueblo
Jillian sits down with Diego Perez, known as Yung Pueblo, to explore themes from his upcoming book, How to Love Better. They discuss how self-love and healing directly impact relationships, the power of meditation, and finding harmony with your partner. Diego shares his personal ... Show More
1h 12m
Oct 2023
"It's Always F*cking Safety!" (Q&A Session)
<p>I get together with another Codependency Alchemy member to talk about fears around something we don't completely understand, and how it always's comes back to safety. We talk about embracing sexuality, fears around being sexualized, being in a state of fear, and more ... Show More
35m 14s
Nov 2025
How to Be Yourself: Authenticity in Relationships with Elizabeth Ferreira
In this very fun episode, Forrest and Elizabeth discuss how to get on the same team in a relationship. They explore how conditions of worth, masking, and developmental trauma can get in the way of showing up authentically, and how falling into common relationship roles can reinfo ... Show More
1h 12m
Nov 2025
Unmet Needs vs. Unrealistic Standards: How to Know the Difference
Jillian dives into one of the most confusing parts of love—telling the difference between an unmet need and an unrealistic expectation. She breaks down how projection, attachment, and self-awareness shape what we ask for in relationships, and what happens when those needs go unan ... Show More
48m 22s