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Why Having a Backup Plan Is Making You F...

Sam Webster Harris | Growth Mindset Psychology
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In 1519, Hernán Cortés landed in Mexico and promptly set fire to his own fleet. By any conventional measure of military logistics, this seems profoundly counterproductive. It wasn't. Matt Higgins — Shark Tank investor, Harvard Business School lecturer, and accidental dropout — has spent his career studying what happens when humans remove their own escape ro ... Show More
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