In this episode, Dr. Amelia Kelley sits down with CEO, TEDx speaker, and confidence coach Tara Lafon Gooch for a thoughtful conversation about what confidence actually is and why so many of us struggle to feel it. Instead of the usual “just believe in yourself” advice, Tara shares a deeper approach rooted in gratitude, authenticity, and the courage to show up as you truly are.
Together, they explore how sensitivity, trauma, and life experiences can shape our sense of self and our willingness to take risks. Amelia brings in the therapeutic lens, discussing how nervous system patterns, perfectionism, and fear of judgment can hold people back, especially for highly sensitive or neurodivergent individuals.
Throughout the episode, Tara introduces her powerful three-layer gratitude practice: gratitude for who you were, who you are, and who you are becoming. Through stories, metaphors, and practical insights, this conversation invites listeners to rethink failure, embrace growth, and begin building confidence from the inside out.
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About the guest:
Tara LaFon Gooch is a CEO, TEDx speaker, author, and confidence coach specializing in helping entrepreneurs, leaders, and high achievers unlock their authentic confidence through gratitude and mindset transformation. Her TEDx talk, Gratitude, the Foundation of Confidence, explores the science and practice behind her signature three-layer gratitude method. Tara also coaches TEDx speakers and works with clients to help them step courageously into the next version of themselves.
Connect with Tara LaFon Gooch
Instagram: @taralafongooch
Website: taralafongooch.com
Business Website: Best Branding Solutions
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