A "pathetic man" is the guy who gets you to take care of him, because he's purposefully not taking care of himself.
These are the men who lean into the hardships of modern manhood...and expect women to sooth their pain. They're popping up in our TV shows, social media feeds, and real lives. So much so that Tiktoker Josh Lora (aka
tellthebeees) has declared
2026 the year of pathetic men.
Host Brittany Luse and Josh raise a toast to the men who lean into the ways patriarchy and masculinity have failed them…maybe too much.
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