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Feb 2025
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SEPHY AND WING
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podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on the dating landscape in 2025, the horrors of educating men in their 20s, accepting the bare minimum, the vulnerability of infatuation, and everyday misogyny. ✷


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