In this powerful conversation, Kate has a powerful conversation with her dear friend and Women’s Empowerment Coach, Amy Pamensky to unpack something so many women don’t even realize they’re trapped inside:
Good Girl Programming.
The invisible conditioning that taught us to be agreeable, accommodating, impressive, self-sacrificing, desirable, and “easy to love.”
The part of us that learned early on that approval equals safety.
That being chosen equals worth.
That keeping the peace matters more than telling the truth.
In this episode, Kate and Amy explore how “good girl” conditioning shows up in dating, marriage, career, money, friendships - and even in the way we relate to our own desires.
Because most women aren’t actually struggling with love.
They’re struggling with the fear of being “too much.”
Too emotional.
Too ambitious.
Too sexual.
Too honest.
Too powerful.
In This Episode, We Explore:
This conversation is not about blaming men or burning your life down.
It’s about reclaiming your voice.
Your no.
Your standards.
Your desire.
Your sovereignty.
Because the truth is - the version of you who is deeply loved, met, and respected?
She is not performing.
She is not shrinking.
She is not managing everyone else’s comfort.
She is rooted in herself.
If you’ve ever felt exhausted from being “the good one,”
If you’ve ever swallowed your truth to avoid conflict,
If you’ve ever built a life that looks good on paper but feels quietly misaligned…
This episode is for you.
It’s time to break the script.
About the Guest:
Amy Natalie is an author, podcast host, and a Feminine leadership coach with over a decade of coaching experience. She specializes in helping women emerge as their most authentic, confident, and fully-expressed selves. Her mission is to ignite women into their feminine power so they can live a life of freedom, pleasure, and fulfillment. Amy is the author of The Feminine Way and the host of the Feminine Frequency Podcast, which has over 400 episodes reaching women all around the globe.
Links
Website: www.amynatalieco.com
Instagram: www.instagram.com/amynatalieco
Free Morning Ritual: https://amynatalieco.mykajabi.com/morningritual
Free Truth Telling Ritual: https://amynatalieco.mykajabi.com/reveal-your-truth
The Feminine Way Book: https://a.co/d/0awxV5ty
Feminine Frequency Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/feminine-frequency-podcast/id1494698607
About the Host:
Kate Harlow is the founder of The Unscriptd Woman, the creator of The Expanded Love Coaching Method, and host of The New Truth podcast - ranked in the top 1.5% globally. With over 15 years of experience teaching, coaching and facilitating transformational retreats worldwide, Kate has helped hundreds of thousands of women break free from outdated relational patterns, old patriarchal ways of thinking and unspoken rules to live by.
Her infallible methods guide women to release the deeply ingrained scripts that keep them stuck- empowering women to step into their highest, most magnetic, and fully expressed selves. Through her coaching, retreats, podcast and upcoming book The Unscriptd Woman, Kate is redefining what it means to be an empowered woman in today's world, showing women how to stop waiting for permission and start creating a life and love that aligns with their deepest truth.
Known for her rare ability to see exactly where women are out of alignment with themselves, Kate offers a path back to unwavering self- trust, meaningful joy and true fulfillment. Her work is a revolution - one that liberates women from societal expectations and invites them into a life of radical authenticity, thriving relationships and unshakable self-worth.
Website: https://www.theunscriptdwoman.com/
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