Today we’re breaking cycles with Deb Fileta as she dives deep into people pleasing, unpacking its roots, how it affects dating and relationships, and sharing practical steps to walk in healthy, God-centered connection!
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Feb 18
S17 Ep289: Limerence vs Infatuation: How to Recognize and Heal Unhealthy Romantic Fixation
Today, Kait and JJ dive deep into the world of limerence, breaking down what it really is, how it differs from infatuation and a crush, and offering practical wisdom for anyone struggling to break free from obsessive romantic fantasies! Need 1:1 support for your specific dating s ... Show More
48m 46s
Jan 2025
Why Dating Feels IMPOSSIBLE: Physical Attraction, Can’t Commit & Why You’re Single! Kait and JJ
On today’s episode we have Christian dating coaches, Kait and JJ, on to discuss the downfall of men in our society, does attraction in relationships matter, why is divorce on the rise, and what Does God want for godly relationships? Thanks for listening! We’ll see you back here F ... Show More
1h 6m
Jan 2025
138. Dating Is Easier When You Master Self-Compassion (Here's How)
Whether you're dating or have a partner, we can't overlook the most important relationship you'll ever have: the one with YOU. In this episode, you'll learn how to practice self-acceptance and compassion, why I don't believe in "just loving yourself," and how this affects your da ... Show More
42m 53s
Jul 2024
Red Flags in Men to AVOID: Lust, False Promises, Pushing Boundaries, & MORE!
SINGLE LADIES! There are so many of you wanting me to talk about dating and how to find the Christian man of your dreams and TODAY we answer all those questions! It’s time to chat about the 7 types of men that you need to AVOID like the PLAGUE while you’re dating! We’re going to ... Show More
1h 5m
Jun 2025
What Women Want: How to Ask Her Out (Without Giving Her the Ick)
If you’re single and over the dating scene, this episode is for you. Jillian unpacks what’s really going wrong—why so many people are catching the ick, why emotionally available partners feel so rare, and how we can shift the way we show up for love. Whether you're dating, have a ... Show More
29m 57s
Oct 2025
205. Truths About Love We Don't Like Hearing (But Need To) w/ Jillian Turecki
In this episode, I sit down with author and relationship coach Jillian Turecki to talk about the hard truths of love, why it really begins with you, and what changes when you stop outsourcing certainty and start meeting your own needs. We get into the “six human needs” as a simpl ... Show More
45m 54s
Jul 2024
170. Date Like a Feminist with Lily Womble
Are you tired of outdated, stereotypical, male-centered dating advice? Are you ready to embrace a more powerful approach to finding love? In this episode of the Financial Feminist, Tori sits down with Lily Womble, founder and CEO of Date Brazen and author of 'Thank You, More Plea ... Show More
1h 27m
Mar 2025
a guy’s perspective on dating & long-term commitment
we're focusing on the male perspective today as our co-host james takes the stage to share his experience navigating love, relationships, dating, and the big ol' question of long term commitment. today he answers some hard hitting questions like his ideal type, why he never dated ... Show More
51m 50s