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Feb 18
18m 49s

Meaghan Oppenheimer Reveals the ‘Tell Me...

BETCHES MEDIA
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Meaghan Oppenheimer joins us to break down everything happening behind the chaos of ‘Tell Me Lies’. From why the characters keep Stephen around to the humiliation and narcissistic abuse themes at the heart of the show, we dig into the choices that spark the strongest reactions online. Meaghan sets the record straight on Lucy villain discourse, fan theories t ... Show More
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