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Jul 2024
11m 53s

Dating Whilst Discovering Yourself

JAMES BARR AND DAN HUDSON
About this episode
Following last weeks conversation about gay stereotypes, this week James and Dan are diving into another myth: that all gay people know each other! Hint: It's, obviously, not true. The question leads onto a conversation about social media habits and the awkwardness that can come with liking people's posts online. This weeks episode of A Gay And A NonGay ends ... Show More
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