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Jul 2024
11m 53s

Dating Whilst Discovering Yourself

JAMES BARR AND DAN HUDSON
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Following last weeks conversation about gay stereotypes, this week James and Dan are diving into another myth: that all gay people know each other! Hint: It's, obviously, not true. The question leads onto a conversation about social media habits and the awkwardness that can come with liking people's posts online. This weeks episode of A Gay And A NonGay ends ... Show More
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