This week, James and Dan are tackling listener questions around challenging assumptions about sexuality. In this weeks "Non-Gays Can't Say", Josh from Glasgow asks a provocative question around how you truly know if you're gay... if you've never been with a woman. The discussion shifts to recent comments made by the Pope, leading to a conversation around the ... Show More
Nov 5
Gogglebox, Gay Divorces and Going Kilimanjaro with Dan Lister
On this episode of A Gay And A NonGay, James and Dan are sitting down with the iconic Daniel Lustig-Webb, a familiar face from the hit show Gogglebox. Daniel discusses the unique concept of'Gogglebox, filming experiences, and the show's impact during the pandemic. He shares perso ... Show More
32m 8s
May 2024
Should I Tone Down My Personality To Attract More Dates? ft. Emma Willmann
This week’s Sunday Special delves into boundaries, appropriateness, and perception, but first, J&J are catching up with Emma Willmann (@emmawillmann). The conversation from Emma’s last time on the pod gets a quick update with where it continued with a sex therapist on Emma’s podc ... Show More
53m 45s
Oct 2024
Gay Travel Guide: Best, Worst, and Most Surprising Places Revealed!
This week we talk to Sion from The Globetrotter Guys who is an expert on all things LGBTQ+ travel! He talks to us about where he's visited, things to bear in mind when travelling as someone from the LGBTQ+ community, and his stance on travelling to homophobic countries and much, ... Show More
47m 49s
May 2022
Ep 70: Burritos & Wedding Cakes
We’re talking…. a Wolf and Owl burrito shack, foam wedding cakes, family favouritism, having your flaws pointed out to you, disappointing male attitudes, chatty swans, advice on learning lines and bad front row decorum at gigs. Then we get serious answering your emails - this wee ... Show More
1h 5m
Jul 2025
How to talk about your body without shame (w/ Anita Rao) | from How to Be a Better Human
<p>Why is having the sex talk, admitting you passed gas, or being open about your body hair so seemingly uncomfortable for all of us? Journalist and host of the podcast, Embodied, Anita Rao, joins Chris this week to discuss why having open conversations about taboo topics like se ... Show More
34m 58s
Aug 15
Ghosting, Gaslighting, and Gay Bars (w/ Roz Hernandez)
<p>For <a href="https://www.instagram.com/rozhernandez/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Roz Hernandez</a>, dating as a sober, trans woman comedian is a trifecta of difficulty - and finding love hasn’t been easy. She tells Nicole about going to 4 different Etsy psychics ... Show More
1h 8m
Aug 20
Are They a Walking Red Flag? Case Kenny on Maturity, Relationships, and Self Worth
JVN sat down with Case Kenny, host of the podcast New Mindset, Who Dis?, to talk all things dating, relationships, self-worth, and confidence. Together, they dive into the surprising power of language, how the words we use shape our lives, and what it really takes to build health ... Show More
48m 27s