For years, I tried everything to recover from OCD and anxiety — books, therapists, programs, techniques — yet nothing truly changed.
In this episode of The Restored Minds Show, I share the moment where everything shifted for me — the point where once I did this, I healed. Not overnight. Not magically. But permanently.
I walk through the two internal shifts that moved me from endlessly trying to recover… to actually living in a calm, regulated, trusting state.
If you’ve been consuming content, searching for the “right answer,” or hoping something external will finally fix this, this episode will help you see why healing doesn’t come from trying harder — but from deciding differently.
Rather than managing symptoms or coping with fear, recovery came from changing my relationship to outcome, identity, and implementation.
🧭 What You’ll Learn in This Episode
✅ The difference between trying to heal and deciding to heal
✅ Why consuming more information doesn’t create recovery
✅ The internal decision that changes everything
✅ Why structure, support, and guidance matter more than content
✅ How healing becomes inevitable once the outcome is decided
✅ What “recovered” actually feels like in daily life
This episode is about clarity, responsibility, and reclaiming your life — without shame, pressure, or false hope.
🚀 Resources to Help You Heal:
📥 FREE Recovery Guide
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📘 Taking Back Control (TBC) ProgramLearn how to apply these principles daily and dissolve anxiety at the root.👉 Apply Now: https://www.restoredminds.com/tbc
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⏱️ Timestamps
00:00 – From trying to recovered
01:45 – Why content doesn’t heal
03:00 – The decision that changes everything
05:10 – Letting go of “trying”
07:30 – Why structure and support matter
09:40 – What recovery actually feels like
⚠️ Disclaimer
This content is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical or psychological advice. Please consult a licensed professional for personalized care.