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Feb 2
54m 22s

Our Sex Life is a Disaster

Esther Perel Global Media
About this episode
We hear from a couple who have long been happy in their marriage, except for one thing: their sex life. In moments of intimacy, one freezes, the other hesitates, and they end up locked in a cycle of uncertainty and distress. On the precipice of becoming parents, they come to Esther worried about how their sex life might further deteriorate in this next stage ... Show More
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