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770 - The parallel lives you're not livi...

CASE KENNY
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In this episode, I talk about the power of "counter-factual" thinking and how thinking of both better and worse parallel lives is the key to being a delusional optimist. My new book "The Opposite of Settling" is out now! Instagram: @case.kenny 
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