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Modern Dating Is Broken | Paul Eastwick

THE ART OF CHARM
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AJ and Johnny sit down with Paul Eastwick, relationship scientist and author of Bonded by Evolution, to unpack what modern dating has gotten wrong — and what the science actually says about love, attraction, and connection. They explore how online dating has distorted our view of desirability, why the search for “the perfect person” makes us miserable, and ... Show More
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Why High Social Skills Win in the Age of AI | Social Intelligence Briefing
AJ and Johnny break down the real competitive edge in the age of AI — emotional regulation and social intelligence. As automation levels the playing field for output, human connection has become the new performance multiplier. This episode unpacks why the smartest person in the r ... Show More
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Is AI Coming For Your Job? | Zack Kass
AJ and Johnny sit down with Zack Kass, AI futurist and author of The Next Renaissance: AI and the Expansion of Human Potential, to explore how artificial intelligence will reshape identity, purpose, and meaning. Zack breaks down why our fear of AI isn’t really about machines; it’ ... Show More
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AJ and Johnny reveal the single most important human skill to master in 2026 — and why it’s the one AI will never replace: validation. As automation takes over the transactional side of work, the moments that matter most — the hallway conversation, the tense meeting, the post-dat ... Show More
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