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Flirting in Mandarin 😏 Learn playful Chinese expressions, from “thinking of you” to “want to grab coffee together?” 💫 Perfect for fun daily chats, bar talk, or texting with someone special.

暧昧中文 💫 学会一些调皮又自然的表达，从“想你呀”到“要不要一起喝咖啡？”😏 适合聊天、约会，也适合和喜欢的人开开玩笑。

✨ Grammar of the Day 语法重点

想不想…？ (xiǎng bù xiǎng…?) = Do you want to…?

This structure sounds casual, light, and sometimes flirty, depending on the tone.

🔹 Examples:

• 想不想和我一起吃饭？
  Do you want to eat with me?
• 想不想周末一起出去玩？
  Do you want to go out this weekend?

📌 Key Vocabulary 词汇

• 喜欢 (xǐhuān) — like
• 想 (xiǎng) — want
• 一起 (yìqǐ) — together
• 调皮 (tiáopí) — playful, cheeky
• 约会 (yuēhuì) — date
• 心动 (xīndòng) — heart flutter
• 暧昧 (àimèi) — ambiguous, flirty
• 特别 (tèbié) — special
• 请客 (qǐng kè) — to treat, to pay the bill

🗣️ Sentence Examples 例句

1. 你真调皮。
   Nǐ zhēn tiáopí.
   You’re so playful.
2. 跟你在一起很开心。
   Gēn nǐ zài yìqǐ hěn kāixīn.
   I’m so happy being with you.
3. 你让我心动。
   Nǐ ràng wǒ xīndòng.
   You make my heart flutter.
4. 你特别不一样。
   Nǐ tèbié bù yíyàng.
   You’re really special.
5. 想不想和我约会？
   Xiǎng bù xiǎng hé wǒ yuēhuì?
   Do you want to go on a date with me?

Funny Dialogues 小对话

🍹 在酒吧 (At a Bar)

A: 你一个人吗？
Nǐ yí gè rén ma?
Are you here alone?

B: 对啊。你要请我喝酒吗？
Duì a. Nǐ yào qǐng wǒ hē jiǔ ma?
Yeah. Are you going to buy me a drink?

A: 哈哈，可以啊，不过只请你一杯。
Hāhā, kěyǐ a, búguò zhǐ qǐng nǐ yì bēi.
Haha, sure — but only one drink.

B: 一杯不够，你要请两杯。
Yì bēi bú gòu, nǐ yào qǐng liǎng bēi.
One drink isn’t enough, you have to buy me two.

📱 在聊天 (Texting)

A: 你在干嘛？
Nǐ zài gàn ma?
What are you doing?

B: 想你呀。
Xiǎng nǐ ya.
Thinking of you.

A: 哈哈，真的吗？
Hāhā, zhēn de ma?
Haha, really?

B: 当然，你要不要出来喝咖啡？
Dāngrán, nǐ yào bù yào chūlái hē kāfēi?
Of course. Want to come out for coffee?

A: 好啊，不过你要请客。
Hǎo a, búguò nǐ yào qǐng kè.
Sure — but you’re paying.