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In this urgent conversation, Carl and Laura Lentz tackle an email that made them immediately stop everything and record: a woman whose husband has had over 200+ sexual encounters with prostitutes, massage parlors, and emotional affairs—yet he's calling HER controlling for asking him to stop chatting with younger women at th ... Show More
Nov 12
Married for 23 years. If you want it to last, watch this
<p>At 47 years old and 23 years into marriage, Carl and Laura Lentz drop the most uncomfortable truth about relationships: your marriage doesn't need more love, it needs more PROOF. After surviving public infidelity that should have ended everything (200+ affairs, strip clubs, ma ... Show More
52m 17s
Nov 5
We Never Fell Out of Love, We Stopped Liking Each Other - The Truth That Saved Our Marriage
<p>In this honest conversation, Carl and Laura Lentz rip open the facade of "perfect marriages" to expose the unspoken epidemic: couples who love each other but can't stand being in the same room. Drawing from their own marriage reconstruction after losing everything publicly, th ... Show More
31m 34s
Oct 29
Did I settle in my marriage?
<p>Have you ever looked at your relationship or your spouse and quietly wondered, did I settle? Most people think settling means picking the wrong person, but it usually means somebody has stopped growing. In this episode of Lights On, we make the case that settling starts in the ... Show More
43m 28s
Jun 2025
When Your Brain Won’t Shut Up: A guide to internal peace and lasting focus
Let's unpack the heart of attention, addiction, autopilot and self-sabotage. This episode is a deep dive into the junk food of thought: addictive mental loops that hijack your attention, and keep you stuck repeating the same boring patterns — again and again and again. We talk ab ... Show More
27m 32s
Jul 2025
#968 - Dr Rick Hanson - The Psychology of Obsession, Rumination & Letting Go
Dr. Rick Hanson is a psychologist, speaker, and an author. How often do you find yourself stuck replaying a situation you wish you could just forget? No matter how much you want to move on, your mind keeps circling back. So what are the practical strategies to break free from rum ... Show More
1h 39m
Jul 2025
Dr K (Bad Habit Addiction Doctor): The Truth About Dopamine, Addiction, Pornography & Masturbation
World-Renowned Addiction Expert Dr. K reveals the SHOCKING truth about masturbation, pornography, dopamine burnout, incels, and why 60% of men under 30 are single. Dr K from Healthy Gamer! Dr. Alok Kanojia (aka Dr. K) is a world-leading addiction expert, Harvard-trained psychiatr ... Show More
1h 58m
Mar 2025
Mental, moral and physical laziness - how to beat our modern addictions
What if the path to a meaningful life isn't paved with comfort, but with deliberate discomfort?
In this episode, we explore the insidious nature of "flabbiness" - not just of body, but of mind and spirit. We'll uncover how our modern world lulls us into a state of complacent exis ... Show More
22m 52s
Aug 2024
The Power of Self-Love: Kevin Hines on Turning Brain Pain into Purpose
TW: This episode discusses suicide and depression In this uplifting episode, we sit down with Kevin Hines, an award-winning speaker and mental health advocate, to explore resilience, hope, and the journey to self-love. At the age of 19, Kevin survived a suicide attempt that forev ... Show More
1h 25m
Mar 2025
How to Stop Screwing Yourself Over
<p>Today, you’re getting a wake-up call that will forever change the way you see your phone, your attention, and your time. </p><p>Mel is pulling back the curtain on the hidden game that Big Tech is playing with your brain—one designed to hijack your focus, drain your energy, and ... Show More
1h 13m
Aug 4
Ep 304 You're Smart. You're Capable. And You're Still Stuck
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Have you ever wondered why, despite knowing everything about weight loss, you still can't stop obsessing over food and your body? Why do you feel stuck in a loop of control, restriction, and guilt—even when you "do everything right"? And you fee ... Show More
38m 10s
Jan 2025
Break Free from Destructive Patterns, the Real Reason You Feel Stuck & How to Protect Yourself from Toxic People, with Mel Robbins!
Mel Robbins' Mind-Blowing Secrets on Mindset to Feel Better Emotionally & Spiritually!
Learn How to Regulate Your Emotions in a Foolproof Way
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Stop Letting Toxic People Control You: Is It Time to CUT THEM OFF?
Mel Robbins, the mindset, motivation, & behavior change expert, ... Show More
1h 41m