logo
episode-header-image
Nov 12
1h 4m

How To Figure Out Where To Live and Tips...

ALLISON WETIG AND CEARA KIRKPATRICK
About this episode

Ep 252: In this episode, Allison and Ceara discuss the essential steps to take when considering a move, emphasizing the importance of identifying personal preferences and lifestyle goals. We frequently get asked questions about where to move and how to find the courage to try  a new place, so we decided to dedicate an entire episode to the topic. 

In the catch up segment, Ceara shares about the second half of her Costa Rica work trip. She embraced all the ocean activities like shell hunting, tidepooling, and snorkeling. Allison is 37+ weeks pregnant so she’s in the final preparation stage and is so eager to meet the baby. Her and Clay are leaning into baby moon activities like attending a concert in Amsterdam of one of their favorite artists and going on a road-trip to Gouda for the famous cheese market. 


TAKEAWAYS:

  • The first step in moving is to identify your current core values.
  • Visit places in the eyes of a local before you move there.
  • There will never be a perfect time to move so don’t wait to take the leap.
  • Start decluttering and getting rid of things at least 1-2 months early.
  • Ensure you’re not running away but instead seeking opportunities.
  • Prepare a substantial financial safety net as there will be unexpected costs. 
  • It will take time emotionally to adjust to a new place so give it time.
  • Try to integrate into the local community as soon as you can.
  • It’s okay to feel homesick and miss the comforts of home. 
  • Moving to a new place can be both really hard and rewarding.


RELATED EPISODES:

Episode # 93 - Moving To A New City: Making Friends, Choosing Where to Live, and More

Episode # 165 - Making Friends in a New City + Social Wellness with Lindsay Hornecker 

Episode # 173 - Lessons Learned Living Abroad for 10 Years: Visas, Language Barriers and Letting Go with Faith Mabry

Episode # 180 - WWYBD?! Moving, Relationship Uncertainty and Protecting Your Peace

Episode # 181 - How To Network, Be A Good Communicator and Leverage Social Media


MENTIONS:

Website That Shows Transportation Scores - WalkScores.com 

Website That Shows Affordability and Location Efficiency - H+T Index


SPONSORS + DISCOUNTS: 

Get Shopify Point of Sale for your business! Shopify.com/ALREADYFRIENDS to get your $1 a month trial! 


SOCIAL LINKS:

Already Friends Socials: Instagram, TikTok

Allison's Socials: Instagram, TikTok

Ceara's Socials: Instagram, TikTok

Already Friends Patreon: $5 a Month for Bonus Episodes

Let's be friends - join the Already Friends FB Group

If you enjoyed this episode, we would really really appreciate it if you left a rating and review on Apple Podcast / Spotify or share the show with a loved one. This helps us grow the show so that we can keep doing what we are doing. Thank you so much for the support!

To sponsor our show, email hello@alreadyfriendspodcast.com




Our Sponsors:
* Check out Shopify: https://shopify.com/alreadyfriends
* Check out Uncommon Goods: https://uncommongoods.com/alreadyfriends


Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Up next
Nov 19
Planning A Trip Around The Globe, European Fashion and Final Baby Prep
<p><span>Ep 253: In this episode, Allison and Ceara share recent life updates. Ceara is preparing for a four part back to back trip, both work and pleasure. She will be going to the Dominican Republic for a hotel collaboration, then she’s off to Saudi Arabia for a production, the ... Show More
37m 9s
Nov 5
Tips For Increasing Productivity At Home (Work, School, Creative, Play)
<p>Ep 251: In this episode, Allison and Ceara discuss various strategies for increasing productivity at home, especially during the colder months. We share tips for managing time effectively, the importance of creating designated spaces for different activities, and personal exam ... Show More
58m 11s
Oct 29
“Non-Traditional” Lifestyles: Moving in With My Boyfriend, Babies Before Marriage, and Long Distance Friendships (WWYBD?!)
<p>Ep 250: In the catch up segment, Allison and Ceara share about their weeks at home. Allison had two pregnancy appointments, finished furnishing her apartment, is making progress on her baby registry / checklist, and is enjoying fall activities like baking cookies. Ceara just r ... Show More
57m 18s
Recommended Episodes
Aug 4
You’ve Been Taught to Hate Yourself - But the Shame Was Never Yours. Here’s How to Finally Start Loving Who You Are (Fan Fav)
This is a Fan Fav episode. The Body Shop launched a global report this year that revealed 60% of women wish they had more respect for themselves. This study is shining light on a self-love crisis. Sexuality, economic status, age, and time on social media were all factors that see ... Show More
37m 46s
May 2025
A REALISTIC GUIDE TO CONFIDENCE: how to ACTUALLY be confident
<div>How to ACTUALLY be confident!!! not just fake it!!!! In this episode, I’m giving you all my tips on how to stop doubting yourself and own who you are. From keeping promises to yourself to being okay with people not liking you, here’s a realistic guide to becoming the most so ... Show More
21m 38s
Mar 2021
Build Confidence & Overcome Imposter Syndrome as a Copywriter
<p>We hate to be the bearers of bad news, but if confidence is not an issue for you now, it will at some point in your life. We <i>all</i> face situations that challenge or even shake our confidence, whether it’s in the form of self-doubt or fear. Now here’s the good news: there ... Show More
1h 24m
Aug 10
Most People Get Confidence Completely Wrong...
Want to feel more confident in your everyday life, work, or relationships? In this special compilation episode, I’m sharing 5 powerful confidence lessons shared by past guests — insights that I wish I heard years ago. These aren’t your typical surface-level tips. Each one is a mi ... Show More
21m 47s
Nov 2022
let's talk CONFIDENCE ⚡️
<p>Episode 116: Solo episode with Shayla Quinn on confidence: what to do if you&apos;re lacking confidence and how to nurture your most confident self ✨ <br/><br/><a href='https://shaylaquinn.com/the-yoga-inspired-life'>Click here to learn more about the next cycle of the TYIL Pr ... Show More
23m 9s
Mar 2024
The Ripple Effect Of Confidence AudioChapter from The Confidence Formula AudioBook by Patrick King
The Confidence Formula: May Cause: Lower Self-Doubt, Higher Self-Esteem, and Comfort In Your Own Skin (Be Confident and Fearless Book 8) By: Patrick KingHear it Here - https://bit.ly/ConfidenceFormulaKing https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0994VF5XH 00:16:21 Low Confidence Characteristic ... Show More
58m 13s
Aug 1
5 Game-Changing Rituals to Reclaim Your Confidence, Even When You Feel Unlovable | WOI Experts (Fan Fav)
This is a fan fav episode. You can be in a room full of people and feel completely alone. You can also have hundreds of relationships in your life and more friendships than you can count and feel unlovable and unworthy of love. History of abuse, emotional trauma and attachment is ... Show More
1h 45m
Apr 2025
How I Stopped Caring What People Think & Finally Owned Who I Am | Lisa Bilyeu (Fan Fav)
Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on May 5, 2021. As humans our desire to be liked and accepted by others is part of the human experience. We are social by nature, so caring what others think about us is something we all experience on some level, but it can feel like kr ... Show More
31m 49s