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Nov 2025
31m 20s

10 | The traps and challenges of rewards...

Ashleigh Warner
About this episode

Do you use rewards and consequences in your home? Or avidly avoid them? Or want to avoid them but can't articulate why?

In this episode, Ashleigh Warner, Family Psychologist, describes the 3 reasons why rewards and consequences can make things trickier for families and also, the traps parents can fall into when they try and avoid them.

So whether you use them or avoid them, this episode is for you!


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