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Nov 10
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How to Be the Perfect First Date: 20 Eas...

Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski
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Tired of first date disasters? Discover the secrets to turning that initial encounter into a thrilling experience with our comprehensive guide to first date success. From pre-date preparation to post-date follow-up, learn 20 expert tips that will boost your confidence, spark genuine connection, and leave your date wanting more. Originally Aired: Aug 21, 2024 ... Show More
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