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Mar 2024
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(Rewind): 5 First-Date Moves That Make T...

MATTHEW HUSSEY
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People think going on a date with someone is simple.

You dress up, groom yourself, and head to an overpriced bar. Then you talk, ask questions, blah blah blah. Gulp down a few drinks. Maybe a kiss. End of story.

Well... that’s not bad.

But do you really want to be just the “not bad” person in their head?

Wouldn’t you rather they go home in a romantic haze, unable to take their mind off this new, unendingly fascinating person who they just pray will answer their texts the next day?

Thought so.

If you really want them to miss you after only 24 hours, don’t leave the first encounter without throwing in a few of these techniques...

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