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Nov 2025
53m 4s

The One Who Stays and the One Who Goes

Esther Perel Global Media
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They met in vet school and married just as they reached graduation. But now his work takes him around the world, forcing them to live apart for months at a time. He’s ready to start a family, but she’s hesitant: how can they think about children when they’re often separated by distance? As they wonder about their next phase of life, Esther helps them uncover ... Show More
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