Is "belonging" enough for today's athlete? According to the coaches at The Coaching Culture Podcast, the answer is a resounding No.In this complex and highly relevant episode, hosts J.P. Nerbun, Nate Sanderson, and Betsy Butterick dive into the crucial difference between a player feeling like they simply belong (fitting in culturally) and feeling like they matter (being essential to the team's success). We unpack the toughest challenge coaches face: managing multi-tiered rosters (Freshman, JV, Varsity) and moving players between levels. This is where culture, development, and winning all collide. You will learn:Why the desire to feel you matter is now greater than the desire to feel you belong. How to shift your language from "sending players down" to creating a culture of intentional development. A brilliant team activity (Playing Time Case Studies) to expose your athletes to the complexity of your coaching decisions. How to empower your team leaders (captains) to "coach the transition" for new and promoted players. Where the coach's responsibility ends and the athlete's responsibility for their own drive and development begins. Stop focusing only on who plays and start focusing on how everyone contributes. This episode is essential listening for any coach, parent, or leader dealing with the daily realities of team dynamics and playing time.➡️ Get the full notes & resources from this episode: https://www.tocculture.com/newsletter➡️ Ready for a better culture? Join the community: https://www.skool.com/toccoach/about
➡️ Gaping Void Article: https://www.gapingvoid.com/why-does-mattering-matter/
➡️ Betsy Butterick's Website: https://betsybutterick.com/