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Nov 2025
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137: Phrases That Make You Lose Power (a...

Margarita Nazarenko
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If your language leaks neediness, people treat you like a backup plan. In this episode I give you everyday phrases to retire and exactly what to say instead so you sound soft, certain, and high value in dating, relationships, and life.40% OFF Sitewide for the month of November. Explore here → https://www.margaritanazarenko.com/If you liked this video1. Comme ... Show More
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