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Oct 28
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395:  Creating Emotional Safety & Secure...

Amy Natalie
About this episode

In this insightful episode of The Feminine Frequency, Amy Natalie welcomes licensed mental health counselor and best selling author, Jessica Baum, for a deep conversation on attachment, emotional safety, and the path to relational healing.

Together, they explore how childhood experiences and early caregiver relationships shape adult dynamics and attachment styles—and what it takes to move toward secure attachment from within. Jessica shares wisdom from her book SAFE, highlighting the importance of insourcing safety, working with protector parts, and recognizing the difference between familiar relationship patterns and those that are truly healthy.

The conversation emphasizes that healing doesn’t happen in isolation—it happens in relationship. Amy and Jessica unpack the role of co-regulation, the power of nervous system awareness, and how to cultivate emotional safety both within and beyond romantic partnerships. They also introduce listeners to a powerful new tool: The Wheel of Attachment, which offers a fresh and embodied approach to understanding attachment theory.

This episode is an invitation for listeners to explore the inner work that allows for deeper connection, self-trust, and conscious love.

Themes: 

Secure attachment as the foundation for healthy, conscious relationships

How childhood wounds influence adult relational dynamics

The importance of co-regulation and nervous system healing

Reparenting and building internal safety

Understanding and integrating protector parts

Identifying familiar (yet unhealthy) patterns in love

Seeking support outside of romantic partnerships

The Wheel of Attachment as a transformative self-awareness tool

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🖤/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/consciousrelationshipgroup

JESSICA BAUM is a licensed psychotherapist whose journey began with a lifelong curiosity about the “Whys” of life—why we feel, connect, and experience the world the way we do. This passion led her to specialize in trauma, attachment theory, and interpersonal neurobiology. Jessica believes that connection—to ourselves and others—is at the heart of healing, and she uses a range of modalities to help individuals and couples return to wholeness. She is the founder of the Relationship Institute of Palm Beach, a private group practice, and she leads the Conscious Relationship Group, a global coaching company offering support to clients worldwide. Jessica is a certified addiction specialist and Imago couples therapist with advanced training in EMDR, experiential therapy, CBT, and DBT. Her bestselling book, Anxiously Attached: Becoming More Secure in Life and Love, established her as a trusted authority on healing attachment wounds and building secure, fulfilling relationships.


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