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Oct 2025
19m 11s

The Aligned Yes vs. the People-Pleasing ...

SHAYLA QUINN
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Episode 273: The Aligned Yes vs. the People-Pleasing Yes | In this episode, we're exploring the difference between an aligned yes and a people-pleasing yes, and how learning to pause before you commit can change your energy, relationships, and manifestations. We’ll talk about what alignment really feels like, how to recognize when you’re abandoning yourself ... Show More
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