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Oct 2025
22m 27s

The Power of Not Giving a F*ck After 40

The Angry Therapist
About this episode
There’s a freedom that comes in your 40s that no one warns you about - because it doesn’t come from achievement or success. It comes from shedding. In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about what it really means to stop giving a f*ck - not in the cynical sense, but in the self-loving one.It’s about choosing your energy wisely, letting go of people and sto ... Show More
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