There’s a freedom that comes in your 40s that no one warns you about - because it doesn’t come from achievement or success. It comes from shedding.
In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about what it really means to stop giving a f*ck - not in the cynical sense, but in the self-loving one.It’s about choosing your energy wisely, letting go of people and sto ... Show More
Jul 16
Therapy Thursdays | The Inner Work Behind Healthy Relationships
What does it actually take to build healthy relationships? In this Therapy Thursdays episode, John Kim answers some of the most common questions about love, healing, attachment, and personal growth. From redefining what it means to fall in love to understanding why peace is somet ... Show More
20m 43s
Jul 15
Personal Notes on Love, Masculinity and Growth
In this solo episode, John Kim shares a collection of personal notes written over coffee in Costa Rica, exploring what he's learning about wholeness, love, masculinity, ambition, and personal growth. Through honest reflections and stories, he challenges the idea that we need to k ... Show More
23m 52s
Jul 13
What Every New Dad Needs to Know About Intimacy
When sex changes after having a baby, what happens to the relationship? Becoming parents changes everything, including intimacy. In this episode, John Kim explores what happens when a new father feels disconnected while a new mother is navigating recovery, exhaustion, and the dem ... Show More
23m 13s
Feb 2025
The Over-40 Glow-Up: Sex, Money & Confidence with PR Guru Gwen Wunderlich
The truth about turning 40? It's a f*cking glow-up. Confidence starts feeling as natural as breathing—until society tries to drag us off our pretty pink cloud. But guess what? We're not having it. In this unfiltered, hilarious, and wildly empowering episode, bestselling author an ... Show More
51m 1s
Nov 2024
Midlife Love Story: Dating, Marriage & Intimacy After 40 | Expert Guide with James & Claire Davis
"Sometimes at midlife, we stop doing the things we think we should be doing, and start focusing on what we truly want to do. That's when we find that inner peace." - James Davis Are you navigating the complex waters of midlife relationships? In this enlightening episode, I sit do ... Show More
55m 48s
Jan 2025
Letting Go: Rumination, Breakups, and How to Stop Feeling Attached
Forrest and Dr. Rick focus on one of life's most challenging but essential skills - letting go. Whether you're trying to break free from repetitive thoughts, move on from a relationship, or change an old pattern of behavior, this episode will help you learn how to release what no ... Show More
58m 52s
Nov 2025
Things I Left Behind to Gain Peace (maybe controversial)
#219. Your early thirties have a way of showing you what’s worth carrying and what you’ve been holding onto out of habit, fear, or someone else’s expectations. In this episode, I’m walking through the things I’ve intentionally left behind to create more peace in my everyday life ... Show More
59m 34s