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Why High-Performing Women Secretly Strug...

ERIKA DE PELLEGRIN
About this episode

High-performing women know how to hustle — but what happens when that constant push starts blocking the very life you want?


In this powerful conversation with Nadia Zaal — mother, entrepreneur, and leader, we explore why ambitious women secretly struggle to access their feminine energy. We unpack the hidden blocks that keep us in overdrive, the stigma around slowing down, and how learning to let go can actually open the doors to deeper success, balance, and fulfillment.


🔑 We chat:

  • Why high-performing women stay stuck in masculine energy
  • The hidden cost of always “pushing” for results
  • How to soften into feminine energy without losing ambition
  • The power of yielding, surrender, and receiving
  • How motherhood can transform the way we approach success


If you’ve ever felt like you can’t switch off, that surrender equals weakness, or that you’re “too busy to relax", this episode is for you.


🌸 True success isn’t about doing more ... it’s about being aligned.



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TIME STAMPS

(01:14) Introduction

(06:44) Don’t start a business at THIS moment

(09:48) Does balance exist for you?

(11:22) What did you unlearn?

(14:53) Your masculine energy is ruining your fertility

(26:25) How has motherhood changed the way you show up in business?

(33:04) Why the education system is failing our children



WHO AM I?

My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG!


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