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341. The 5 types of toxic friendships

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Friendships should be a source of joy – people who just make life lighter. But not all friendships feel that way. Some leave us drained, insecure, or questioning our worth. And it can be hard to admit when a friendship has become toxic. Learning to recognise when a friendship is no longer healthy, and how to navigate that shift, is a crucial part of protecting your well-being and building a life that feels aligned.
In this episode, we unpack the psychology of toxic friendships: why we hold onto them, what they cost us, and how to create relationships that support rather than drain us.

We explore:

•        Why good friendships are so crucial in our 20s
•        The 5 types of toxic friendships
•        Warning signs of toxicity
•        How to recognise positive friendship dynamics
•        Why we stay in toxic friendships
•        How to manage friendship breakups and the emotional fallout

If you’ve ever felt trapped in a friendship that leaves you more exhausted than supported, this episode is for you. 

 

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