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Oct 6
57m 40s

How to Break Cycles of Porn, Drugs & Pai...

Jeremy Lipkowitz
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🔹 Want personalized support? Book a free discovery call with Jeremy: JeremyLipkowitz.com/intro

In this episode of the Unhooked Podcast, I interview Jesse Harless, the host of Entrepreneurs in Recovery and a trauma-informed facilitator specializing in addiction recovery and mental health. Jesse shares his journey from early coping mechanisms like thumb sucking and gaming to the extremes of substance addiction, eventually leading to his arrest and subsequent recovery. We delve into the impact of internet porn addiction, the power of community and values in long-term recovery, and the potential of psychedelic-assisted therapy. Jesse’s story offers insights and strategies for anyone navigating compulsive behaviors or seeking personal recovery. Tune in to discover how early childhood experiences shape addiction patterns and learn about effective tools for healing and breaking free from shame.

🔹 Want personalized support? Book a free discovery call with Jeremy: JeremyLipkowitz.com/intro

Connect with Jeremy:

🌍 Website: JeremyLipkowitz.com

📷 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremylipkowitz/

🎥 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyLipkowitz

📩 Email: jeremy@unhookedacademy.com

Jeremy’s Online Course: Unhooked – Step-by-Step Guide to Quitting Porn: https://www.unhookedacademy.com/


Connect with Jesse Harless

📷 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jesseharless222/
🌍 Website: https://www.jesseharless.com/

🎙️YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@jesseharless/

🔗 Linktree: https://linktr.ee/jesseharless222

Entrepreneurs in Recovery Podcast:
https://open.spotify.com/show/3N73mWopq9aWgwUsbNW0u2?si=e3a9db9cc9654aab


Timestamps:

00:00 Introduction
03:44 Jesse's Early Coping Mechanisms and Childhood Challenges
09:35 The Descent into Substance Abuse and Legal Troubles
16:51 The Turning Point: Arrest and the Path to Recovery
24:35 The Role of Community and Mentorship in Recovery
28:43 Navigating Cross Addictions and Long-Term Healing
29:17 The Impact of High-Speed Internet on Porn Consumption
30:36 The Control Aspect of Pornography
30:59 Addiction and the Need for Control
31:52 The Evolution of Internet Pornography
33:19 Personal Struggles and Relapses
33:59 Taking Recovery Seriously
37:20 The Role of Shame in Addiction
40:24 Self-Love and Self-Soothing Techniques
43:16 The Potential of Psychedelics in Addiction Recovery
54:10 The Importance of Sharing Recovery Stories
55:40 Conclusion and Contact Information



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