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Oct 5
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Kemi Nekvapil - A Compass for When You'r...

HUGH VAN CUYLENBURG, RYAN SHELTON & JOSH VAN CUYLENBURG
About this episode

If you’re not navigating your life through your values, what are you using?

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Our lord and saviour is back (in a secular, informal way).

Kemi Nekvapil is back in the Academy of Imperfection to talk all things values: what they are, how we choose them, and how you add croissant as one of yours. Extending the conversation of our previous episode on values with Dr Em, Kemi talks with the guys about how their current personal values are working in their life.

Introducing terms such as val-rules, aspirational values and umbrella values, Kemi walks them through the difference between manipulation and modelling, and why the hard work starts AFTER we’ve chosen our values.

In a peak behind the metaphorical (and literal, hi Producer Bridge) curtain, we discuss what went down in our company values session with Kemi, and how these values come into play in a day-in-the-life of The Imperfects production team.

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Chapters
0:00 – Third time (which is a charm)
6:38 – Croissant as a value
12:54 – Josh’s values are a pink flag
27:56 – Who you are vs who you want be
33:45 – Real world, reframing and living in alignment
38:06 – Trying on your values and setting goals
42:44 – Imperfect (company) Values
1:03:02 – Same value, differing actions
1:08:43 – How to get pants on a three year old

 

The Imperfects is not a licensed mental health service and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, treatment or assessment. The advice given in this episode is general in nature, but if you’re struggling, please see a healthcare professional, or call lifeline on 13 11 14.

 

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