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Oct 5
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1182: How to Unlearn Anxiety: The Path B...

GINA RYAN
About this episode

In today's episode, Gina discusses a novel conceptual approach to overcoming anxiety: actually unlearning the anxiety. Rather than just coping, "white knuckling it" or breathing through it, we can unlearn the practices that have lead us to use anxiety as a survival strategy. You can rewire your mind through mindful awareness, interrupting patterns that have led to anxiety in the past, and reframing your inner narrative to include more benevolent and calming content. Listen in and start unlearning your anxiety today!


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The illiterate of the 21st century will not be those who cannot read and write, but those who cannot learn, unlearn, and relearn.

-Alvin Toffler


Chapters

0:26 Introduction to Unlearning Anxiety

2:28 The Concept of Unlearning

7:28 Identifying Triggers

8:55 Meeting Triggers Differently

10:11 Techniques for Mindful Observation

12:26 Reframing Negative Narratives

15:31 Building New Pathways

17:57 The Ripple Effect of Unlearning

19:22 Embracing a Future Without Anxiety


Summary

In this episode of the Anxiety Coaches Podcast, I delve into the transformative journey of unlearning anxiety, challenging the conventional narratives surrounding coping mechanisms. Many individuals have been conditioned to believe that anxiety is a lifelong companion—something to manage rather than fully overcome. I explore this notion, suggesting that the path to serenity lies not just in coping, but in unlearning the ingrained behaviors and responses that elevate our anxiety levels.


I pose an essential question: what if coping, while useful, perpetuates our anxiety longer than necessary? We often adopt distraction techniques or shallow breathing as quick fixes, but these merely mask the root issues of our anxiety. It’s time to recognize that anxiety isn't an inherent part of our identity, but a response to learned experiences. Each of us has the power to unlearn those responses and free ourselves from their persistent grip, allowing space for a calmer existence.


Throughout our discussion, I emphasize the power of rewiring our minds. I encourage listeners to recall moments of realization that challenge long-held beliefs—those “aha” moments where understanding sparks change. We unpack how anxiety often stems not just from specific triggers, but from our learned responses to those triggers. This understanding is integral to the unlearning process. Instead of simply coping with anxiety—like wearing earplugs to muffle a smoke alarm—we can address the underlying alarm itself.


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