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Oct 2
26m 15s

How To Develop Unshakable Self-Worth - T...

Connor Beaton
About this episode

I explore the real roots of self-worth and why so many of us struggle with it despite doing “all the right things.” I share how childhood experiences shape attachment and how that impacts our ability to value ourselves as adults. I also break down the crucial practices that build self-worth — from expressing needs and boundaries to taking healthy risks.

Finally, I open up about my own journey of failing my way to success and how you can begin your own process of healing.


SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:00 – What really damages self-worth

02:29 – Attachment and early development

07:23 – Childhood shame and adult struggles

11:41 – Hostility to needs and boundaries

15:23 – Expressing desires and boundaries

18:58 – The risks of lacking self-worth

23:24 – Doing hard things builds value

25:05 – ManTalks Alliance invitation

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