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Sep 29
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Ep. 308 - How to stop feeling on the edg...

Breakup Coach Dorothy
About this episode

If you feel like you’re constantly on the edge of tears, terrified of your emotions, or stuck in a cycle of grief you can’t shake, this episode is for you. I’m sharing two powerful meditations that will completely shift how you relate to your feelings. The first helps you create safety inside yourself and build a healthier relationship with your grief instead of fighting it. The second guides you through a 5 minute process of emotional transmuting, so you don’t just sit in your pain, you actually move through it and feel a genuine release. If you’ve been scared of what might happen if you let yourself feel, or exhausted from “feeling your feelings” without relief, these practices will give you a new way forward.

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